August 19th, 2008


 
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QUOTE OF THE DAY 

 

"Love is not a feeling. Love is a spiritual energy field."

--Ariole K. Alei



EDITOR'S NOTE

Hola Everybody, hope all is well in all your circles. All has been terrific on this end. Going through some great energy work with Eckhart Tolle and been writing a lot about the energy field called love -- that space that surrounds us, that so many are so desperately in search of.


Eckhart says that all we need to do is escape the madness of our minds (okay, my words, not his) and lock into that mindless space of multidimensionality -- or energy frequencies. The highest of those vibrating frequencies is called love. It is who we are, where we're from, and what we yearn for, eternally. To me, this is the most important aspect of our journeys together here and now. To discover how to raise the vibration in our own lives. How to protect our families through higher consciousness. And how to help change the world by changing who we think we are. This power lies in our hearts and in our intentions.

 

KIDS IN TROUBLE

I've also been writing a lot about kids in general, and Brandon McInerney in specific. Brandon's the fourteen year old charged with murdering his fifteen-year-old classmate, Larry King, this past February in Oxnard, California. So many people have been angered by what Brandon did, and a lot of that same kind of rage has been expressed toward me for supporting efforts to make sure Brandon doesn't end up spending the rest of his life in a men's adult prison. Based on my experiences in the criminal industry, I will never believe children should be immersed in this horrific penal system.

As one mother recently wrote to me about teens in general who are sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole, "These children are suffering a death sentence. IT IS A SLOW DEATH! But, it is still a death sentence."

Bettyanne Sessing is someone who should know. In 2004, her son did something similar to what Brandon McInerney did. A mere seventeen-year-old teenager at the time, he murdered a man, a terrible drug-induced crime, and he was later tried, convicted, and sentenced in adult court here in Ventura County. Now 21, he will spend the rest of his life in an adult men's prison. He will never have a chance at parole. He will never step outside prison a free man. He will never be allowed to hug his mother again, ever.

Bettyanne knows what her son did was very wrong, and that he must be punished for his crimes. But she also wonders why he can never be allowed to have another chance at living a productive life again. He was a very troubled kid back then, one who has changed and grown up a lot since, and shown tremendous remorse for what he did. But the legal reality is he's out of circulation, gone forever, with no hope, thanks to a very bad decision on his part, and some very tough laws.

For anyone who's interested, Bettyanne puts out a wonderful newsletter "created by juvenile inmates and their families," called 2 Young 4 Life. Please feel free to contact Bettyanne with your thoughts and/or to subscribe to her newsletter through: 2Young4Life@live.com.

 

A MOTHER'S THOUGHTS ON LWOP

A distressed mother shares some thoughts regarding her then teen son's sentencing to life in prison:

"I visited my son at...Prison yesterday. What a sad place that is. My son, who is usually very strong, said that his days are mostly spent being 'hopeless and sad'. Words cannot describe what I feel when he says that. I know too, that the victims' families also experience a deep pain and I never want to forget that. But I just can't see the good of making these children in prison suffer.

My son had to get in a fight for protection. He was at risk of being raped. Because of this fight, he was put in solitary confinement for 2 1/2 years. I drive 6 hours round trip to have a 50 minute visit with him, but there is glass between us. How I long to hug my son again. Even though he is only 21, he has aged.

When I visit the prison, I talk to many different families who are visiting their loved ones. Most are parents, as most men are incarcerated at very young ages. The pain on these parents' faces is heart breaking. I leave there very exhausted and depressed myself as I tend to also absorb the pain of these other parents.

I think if America wants to truly be great in the coming of this 'New Earth' it has to start with the children. We as a society have to acknowledge that we are to blame to a great degree for the rampant violence among our youth. Somehow, somewhere, we dropped the ball. It is up to us to pick up the pieces and come up with viable solutions and healing."

 

TRANSFORMATIONAL THIRD THURSDAYS

August 21st, 7:00 to 8:30 p.m.

I would again like to invite all of you to Transformational Third Thursdays, our monthly consciousness workshop and discussion group based on the teachings of Eckhart Tolle. Our second meeting will take place on August 21st from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Bank of Books, 748 E. Main St., Ventura.

Offered free of charge as a community service, the transformational series has been a terrific success. "More than sixty people turned out for the first meeting," Clarey Rudd, owner of Bank of Books said. "We had a full house and needed to set up chairs out in the parking lot behind the store. We had the meeting under the stars. Everyone was participating and asked lots of questions. They all seemed to enjoy working together toward creating positive change."

Persons at all levels of the transformative experience are invited to attend one or more of the monthly events. The goal of the workshop is for each participant to learn and/or strengthen the building blocks to his or her own positive transformation.
 


"By changing ourselves as individuals, and learning how to tap into the higher vibrations of love and peace," Mehas says, "we can change the collective energies of the world around us. By becoming peace-filled and loving, each one of us can help create a world of peace and love. But we have a lot of work to do, so please come down and help us."

The six-month series will meet on the third Thursday of each month, concluding on December 18th. All events will be held from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Bank of Books in downtown Ventura.

Tolle's books, The Power of Now and A New Earth, and Stolen Boy can be found on the shelves at Bank of Books. In celebration of transformation, Clarey Rudd has agreed to offer a 20% discount on all three books. For further information about the series, call 805.643-3154.
 



STOLENBOY.COM

I've been battling it out on the net with many people who want to see Brandon McInerney -- and me too as far as many of them are concerned -- die a vicious and horrible death for what Brandon did to Larry King. I have been threatened and attacked personally for my position regarding Brandon not being tried as an adult. But I will forever believe that children do not belong in the zero-tolerance men's adult prison system.

Kids are too easily influenced by others. They are so troubled when they commit their violent acts, that they never really have the chance to experience any kind of a normal child's life. Their lives go straight from violence, neglect, and dysfunction as a child to life without the possibility of parole in an adult prison. There has to be some other way. So feel free to join the discussion, to attack, commend, or give us your own thoughts at www.StolenBoy.com.

 



THE NEXT TO LAST WORD

Most of the people I hear from provide much in the way of wisdom, support, and positive reinforcement for what we do. This letter was no exception.

"Hello Michael!  ...I  am a civil rights activist.  I remember when Brandon shot and killed the boy at the Oxnard middle school and I thought that was so sad. Then I read your article in the Ventura Star and I was appalled...51 years before a chance for parole. I have some strong feelings about this case and other ones all over the country just like it. I don't feel any teen under the age of 18 should be sentenced to life without parole or a ridiculous sentence like the one Brandon is facing. My point is this: we all make mistakes when we're young and in time we learn from our mistakes.

For Brandon to serve the rest of his adult life in jail for a crime he committed as a minor is by all means cruel and unusual punishment. As you stated in your article, teens who do get such harsh sentences more often than not, do committ suicide. So in actuality, the Ventura county has given this child a death sentence indirectly. I think a life term of 25 years should be the max. for all minors who committ such violent acts. This enables the individual to eventually have a second chance and it also gives the convicted hope while doing the time, 'light at the end of the tunnel', so to speak.

I know from my own experience how unfair the justice system can be after recently having a run-in with the law
... I'm sure race played an issue but besides that, I am positive that the justice dept of Ventura is very unjust and Brandon McInerney is a clear example of how heartless the legal process has become and how rehabilitation, one of the sole purposes of incarceration, has been lost and completely forgotten. I will forget about my case in order to assure no more children get a harsh life sentence. I am currently working on changing the law for sentencing minors...Thanks for your time Michael and I hope we can work together! 

Thanks for your time, and I know we will work together to make this a more compassionate world in which to live.

 

THE LAST WORD

The Last Word comes as a result of a commentary I wrote to the Ventura County Star last month about my feelings regarding the Brandon McInerney situation. I received much intense feedback from across the country for what I wrote. People filled my ears with hateful words on what they wanted to see happen to Brandon. Others believed that Larry King got what he had coming. All the way around, the words were very sad and filled with a lack of compassion.

People on the Internet also attacked Ventura attorney Steve Pell just for representing the victim's parents. Larry King's parents were also excoriated viciously for filing a lawsuit against Ventura County and our school district for their son's death. So many people are so angry and expressing it in so many ways, and this is what we need to change. With all the insults being hurled everywhere, receiving the below letter was like a cool splash of water on an otherwise bone-dry desert day.

"Hi Michael...interesting you've gotten so many negative responses, because I didn't think the person who wrote the counterpoint to yours was convincing at all.

I don't see this as a gay thing - although Larry's story is sad (how agonizing to be 'different' than others, especially in America where there is so much shame and weirdness around sexuality and being comfortable with it, especially if you are perceived as being different from the norm). But, it doesn't give him the right to intrude on Brandon's space by taunting him or making him uncomfortable - especially at school. Not that what Brandon did was 'right' or justified - but, from the Newsweek story, it seems like this was a complicated issue - if the school officials weren't handling it, how was a 14 year old supposed to? And, who knows what Brandon feels inside about his sexuality, or peer pressure issues.

Geez, and the Newsweek story makes the school officials out to be a bunch of morons, even encouraging Larry's self exploration?  (would they have let the kid come to school dressed so distractingly if he weren't 'expressing his sexuality'?)

People can be fragile when their emotions get wacky - it's not right to provoke anyone intentionally like that...life is stressful enough..... we need to be nicer to and more tolerant of each other! 

Isn't it in Tolle's book that says there are no victims...? I see it as these two boys came here to earth and sacrificed their lives to teach US a lesson - what can we learn from this, how can we be better people after this tragedy?  Whatever the lesson is, tolerance, maybe it's just PAYING ATTENTION TO OUR KIDS... I don't think socking Brandon away in prison for the rest of his life is going to solve it."

I agree -- the key is the lessons we all take home with us from these tragic and trying experiences. The path will become much smoother, however, once we learn to tap into that energy field called love. I swear it'll make a difference in your life. It has in mine. You can trust me on this -- I'm a lawyer.

Peace, Love, and Blessings to all of you,